I know that the heading will give you different ideas in your mind or it may be a misnomer when you go through this. I thought to give an heading like "Life is greater than Sex" but after I decided to keep "Life without Sex?", you find why?.
I loved to learn things and know the world better and continued my college education for that with involving a number of extracurricular activities including business. I had visited a number of places in kerala and most part of India for my education, interviews and for business as well. These journeys helped me to meet a number of people with different perspectives and attitudes. I learned positive things, negatives as well as I learned how to overcome negatives.
I loved to send my sisters to send school and after to college. In my society families not used to allow thier girl child to study after tenth standard (before 20 years, they even not send out side of their home). But, even I fear to send them after hearing and seeing a number of bad activities during the college days and work. The question is same, where are we? Is sex important than life?
A number of bad activities I saw during my journey and life, youngsters especially the students are more prone to have sex without knowing the consequents or the meaning of Life, it is mainly because of our educational system, which failed to provide moral education and sex education. They are running behind the pleasure not the real taste of Life.
Yesterday one of my hostel mate came to me and confessed that he made a wrong thing while he was coming from his home place. While he was travelling to coimbatore he and his girl friend enjoyed themselves and he copied that activities in his mobile. It is a type of public expression of love and a mental disorder. It took a long time to convince him about the consequences and the problem of keeping the movie on his mobile, and at last he deleted that movie from his mobile. Truly it is not an odd incident that I seen while my bus journey and train, I feel ashamed when I know that they are people like me.
The things are going inside the closed doors of internet cafe cabins also very bad to express here when two opposite sexes are inside. It is dangerous to leave it as such when youngsters enter into this activities. They are the rule makers of tomorrow, how can them breed a good generation if they do these immoral things. We cannot blame them and to compell them to stop. It will end when we teach them moral things and being a good citizen.
My life taught me an important lesson that three things are very dangerous for a better life and these things impede us from tasting the real LIFE. That three things are Money, Liquer and Sex without knowing life.
I have analysed many crimes (from news papers), and found that these three things are main role makers there, especially sex. We should teach our children that life is more than sex. We taste the real life only when there is an intimacy in relationship. Relationship is an important factor for a better life and it is the soul of life. If the intimacy get fractured, the life will be dried. Being intimate, and keeping intimacy to everything is important. Love is fullfilled only when there is a relationship and an intimacy. For an intimate relationship, we should understand other part and understanding ourself is an important factor to understand other.
So, if we know ourself better, better the life. The life after knowing that fact is above the word limit. Then we never fall on this material love and material pleasure.
Now I love to send my sister to college after giving an awareness about the mis-use of mobile phones, net cafes and those immoral activities. I like to teach her to rise her voice when she has been mis-behaved or devalued. I know that a new society will arise against these immoral activities or a new society will arise with moral thoughts as a well civilzed one.
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